Tuesday, May 8, 2012

LIVING BY THE SPIRIT VII: PEACE

Today’s Passage: “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus” Philippians 4:6-7.'

Our next study of the Living by the Spirit series centers on peace. Wikipedia describes peace as “a state of harmony characterized by the lack of violent conflict.”  On one hand, this is true.  A time of peace typically follows a time of war.  Certainly, peace would be difficult during violent conflict, and yet, it is not impossible.  One can have peace during extremely unsettling circumstances while another who enjoys all of life’s luxuries may lack peace. 

In Ecclesiastes, we learn that Solomon tried many things to find peace and happiness: building and planting, many servants, wealth, music and many other worldly pleasures.  Yet Solomon could not find peace in these things.  Instead, he noted, “Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man” (Ecclesiastes 12:13.)  By reverencing and obeying God, we can find true peace.

Peace is an often sought-after but seldom obtained quality in our world today.  According to the CDC website, data collected from the National Health and Nutrition Examination Surveys reveals that the use of antidepressants rose nearly 400% according to figures tallied in 2008 as compared to previous survey results tallied in 1994. Note this disturbing fact: \

“Antidepressants were the third most common prescription drug taken by Americans

  of all ages in 2005-2008 and the most frequently used by persons 18-44 years.”[1].

It may not surprise us that the surveys revealed that females were more likely to take antidepressants than males.  It is indeed frightening, however, to learn that the amount of antidepressants taken by children and teenagers had greatly risen over a span of approximately twenty years.  

What is the reason for the increasing lack of peace of mind?  Certainly genetics do play some role in increasing the vulnerability to depression of those with a chemical imbalance in the brain; however, I am personally convinced that sometimes people are led to believe that the reason for their depression is due to a hereditary cause when there are one or two other causes that have been overlooked.  These causes are environment and spiritual health. 

No, I am not a physician or a psychiatrist and am therefore not attempting to provide any medical treatments.  However, as a woman who has suffered from depression and anxiety and who descends from a long line of women with emotional disorders, as well as one who has studied the Bible regarding the subject, I am merely seeking to point out some things I have learned in the hope that these lessons may help others who find themselves in the same situation. 

If you are suffering from severe emotional problems, please by all means consult a physician or psychiatrist to determine the case.  Sometimes, there are very real physical causes such as mineral or chemical imbalances that must be treated medically.  Yet at the same time that you are seeking medical advice for the causes, it is wise to study God’s Word and pray fervently to ensure that you are not merely doctoring the side effects without addressing the underlying cause.  

The first area that may be overlooked is our environment.  Do we surround ourselves with fellow Christians who are concerned for our souls or do we spend time with people who neither worship God nor seek to obey Him?  (2 Corinthians 6:14.)  Do we spend much time in study of God’s Word or watching shallow, immoral movies and TV programs?  I believe that the more we surround ourselves with filth, the less peaceful our lives will be.  

The second area (which overlaps the first) is our spiritual condition.  We cannot be at peace unless 1) we are right with God, 2) we are ignorant of God’s Word and do not know that we are in jeopardy or 3) we have hardened our conscience to the point that our sin renders our hearts impenetrable to the Word of God.  Not everyone who suffers does so due to sin, as evidenced by the crucifixion of Jesus and the imprisonment and murder of Christians in the first century; however, if there is sin in our lives for which we have not repented, and if our consciences are not seared, we can expect that we will not have peace. 

To determine how we can attain peace, let us begin at the source of all wisdom and understanding: God’s infallible Word.  The Psalmist understood where his sense of peace originated.  I will both lie down in peace, and sleep; For You alone, O LORD, make me dwell in safety” (Psalm 4:8.)  There is no peace without God, for He alone keeps us safe. Psalm 37:37 teaches us that those who are blameless and upright enjoy a future of peace.  Only by being in a right relationship with the Lord can we truly defeat depression, anxiety and other debilitating emotional unrest.  

Remember the children’s song based on Luke 6:47-49?  “Oh, the wise man built his house upon the rock…”  What happened to the house built upon the rock when the “rains came tumblin’ down”?  The house stood firm.  This symbolizes the stability of a Christian who builds his life on the Rock – that solid foundation of Jesus Christ our Lord.  He will stand firm, regardless of whatever befalls him. 

On the other hand, let us consider the fate of the house which the foolish man built upon the sand.  Though the two houses looked the same to anyone who visited, the house built on the sand had no firm foundation.  Both owners could entertain guests, sleep comfortably and dine upon fancy china in their homes for a time, but when the torrential rains and flood came, only one would survive.

The same is true of us.  We may have it “all together” – a wonderful family, a great job and good friends – but if our lives are not first built upon Christ, our life is a disaster waiting to happen.  When the enormous troubles of life come, we may find ourselves in the midst of a mental meltdown.  It is then that we truly learn we are unable to do anything and we amount to nothing… that is, on our own.  With God, all things are possible, but without Him, nothing is possible for long.  Our lives without Christ are a farce and have no real substance.

We must realize that having put on Christ is not enough if we do not continue in Him.  We must remain faithful throughout our lives by studying His Word, applying it to our lives and seeking to always please and serve Him.  Even when we don’t feel like loving others and doing good, we must do so.  Psalm 34:14 teaches, “Depart from evil and do good; seek peace and pursue it.”  And we are told in Psalm 37:37: “Mark the blameless man, and observe the upright; for the future of that man is peace.”

Additionally, we must seek to make peace in order to have peace.  “If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men.” (Romans 12:18.)  It is our responsibility to seek peace with others.  Note that “if it is possible” is included, for if our brother or sister in Christ violates God’s commandments and refuses to repent, there can be no peace.  We should feel a sense of grief for their souls.  Peace should never come at all costs, for there is a time when we must stand up for what is right as the apostles did and face ridicule and persecution.  Aside from circumstances such as this, the majority of situations do call for us to keep peace with others even when we must bite our tongue and overlook annoyances.  

If we will constantly strive to always put God first and others second (with ourselves last), I believe we could enjoy a life of peace that we have never known.  Certainly, our struggles would not end because this world is filled with pain.  Because sin exists, there will be heartache, sickness and grief.  But we can look forward to the Home of Eternal Peace – Heaven!  A place where God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit commune with us and we never feel sorrow or pain again.  A place where there will never be “violent conflict” but only peace, harmony and unity.

God wants us to have peace with Him and with one another, but we can only do this by living righteously.  We must become a Christian in the way that God requires and when we sin after we have become a Christian, we must repent and seek God’s (and those who we have hurt)’s forgiveness.  The Psalmist writes, “Great peace have those who love Your law, and nothing causes them to stumble” (Psalm 119:165.)  And Proverbs 3:1-2 states, “My son, do not forget my law, but let your heart keep my commands; for length of days and long life and peace they will add to you.”

Let us always keep in mind that God wants His children to be at peace.  Though we will be rocked to the core at times, our faith and hope in Him can keep us joyful and at peace deep within our souls.  We may bob like a cork in the ocean during troubling storms, but we have an Anchor that keeps us rooted.  He is Jesus Christ, our Solid Rock and Foundation.  God will keep those “in perfect peace whose mind is stayed on” Him.  Why?  “Because we trust in Him. (Isaiah 26:3.) 

On the other hand, “There is no peace, says the Lord, for the wicked” (Isaiah 48:22 and 57:21.)  This is important for us to remember if we find that we have no peace and that our lives are filled with turmoil and anxiety.  Perhaps we are suffering as righteous Job, who was being tempted by Satan through no fault of Job’s.  Or perhaps we have loosened our grip on the Savior and are attempting to handle everything ourselves.  It may even be that sin has crept into our lives and we have no sense of hope or peace but only fear of the Judgment (Hebrews 10:27.)

When we find ourselves being battered on all sides, it may be wise for us to take spiritual inventory to ensure that we are in a right relationship with God.  If we are not, we must get right with Him according to His Word.  If we are in a right relationship, then we must take our worries to the Lord in prayer.  Today’s passage is one of great hope: “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus” (Philippians 4:6-7.)

I encourage you to tape this Scripture to your mirror and read it as you are getting ready for the day and brushing your teeth before bedtime.  Remember not to worry about anything, but give all of your concerns to God in prayer, thanking Him for His blessings and love.  Only by giving our troubles to the Lord can be feel the deep, unexplainable peace that can only come from Him.

I pray that the Scriptures shared today have helped give you peace.  May you have a wonderful day filled with peace from Christ!  “The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make His face shine upon you, and be gracious to you; the Lord lift up His countenance upon you, and give you peace” (Numbers 6:24-26.)




[1] http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/databriefs/db76.htm#fig4

Tuesday, March 6, 2012

LIVING BY THE SPIRIT VI: JOY

Today’s Passage: “And these things we write to you that your joy may be full.” I John 1:4

Today’s lesson continues our study of the fruit of the Spirit. Previously, we studied what love is and what it is not. Today our lesson focuses on the precious fruit of “joy”.

The Merriam-Webster dictionary describes joy as “the emotion evoked by well-being, success, or good fortune or by the prospect of possessing what one desires.” As evidenced by this definition, the world’s view of joy is often linked to physical well-being, financial success or the amount of possessions one owns. While these things may create a temporary feeling of euphoria, they cannot sustain us for long. When a person’s sense of joy is determined by his possessions and wealth, he eventually wants more of both. He may spend his life chasing after material things only to find that he has been “grasping for the wind” as the sinner in Ecclesiastes 2:26: “For God gives wisdom and knowledge and joy to a man who is good in His sight; but to the sinner He gives the work of gathering and collecting, that he may give to him who is good before God. This also is vanity and grasping for the wind.”

Because material possessions are not eternal, they are subject to disappearing. Property value may decrease or the stock market may crash. Thieves may steal our valuable belongings. Our home and possessions may literally go up in smoke. And our health may decline although we have taken great care to eat responsibly and exercise regularly.

If the Bible’s definition of joy is merely a happy feeling based on one’s lot in life or his possessions, we would find a contradiction in the following Scriptures: “Blessed are the poor in Spirit for theirs is the kingdom of heaven” and “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.” Certainly someone who is poor in spirit or mourning is not feeling happy emotions, and yet the word “blessed” here is synonymous with “happy.” How can we be happy and joyful when we are in the midst of trials? And if joy is directly related to the number of things we have, are all who possess great fortunes happy? Conversely, is joy then unattainable to the poor? .

In order to determine God’s definition of joy, we must search the Scriptures. Jesus warned a man who wanted half of his brother’s inheritance to “take heed and beware of covetousness, for one’s life does not consist in the abundance of the things he possesses” (Luke 12:15.) We see that Jesus’ perception of joy was not related to the amount of earthly possessions one owns.

In Matthew 6:19-20 we learn that we should build up treasures in a place where they will not be destroyed or stolen. We are to store up treasures in heaven and not on earth. By seeking the things of God first, we will receive the things that we need (Matthew 6:33.) While we may not get everything we want (which is likely not good for us anyway), we can be assured that God will take care of our daily needs.

Joy is something that must be continually developed through deep study of the Word of God and through prayer. When we truly love God, we will naturally love the things of God. We must take care that our joy is not a fleeting emotion based on circumstance but that it is built upon a deep, daily, permanent commitment to the Lord. In the parable of the sower, seed was spread along various types of ground. Some seed sprang up quickly as Christians often do when they are excited about the gospel (Matthew 13:20.) Yet if we are not deeply rooted in the Word, Jesus teaches that we will stumble when we face tribulation and persecution as evidenced by the seed sown on stony ground. We will lose our joy and become disheartened because of our trials if our joy is based merely on circumstance.

Spiritual joy is not a quick flash of emotion that just as quickly dissipates in the face of adversity. Instead, godly joy is that which is felt in our core and which sustains us no matter what we face. Paul and Silas modeled tremendous joy when they were beaten and imprisoned in Philippi. In Philippians 16:25, we read that they were praying and singing hymns to God at midnight while their feet were fastened in stocks in a prison cell. They were certainly not in a pleasant circumstance, yet what a beautiful example is portrayed of Christian joy. Paul described his overall outlook during persecutions in this manner: “I am exceedingly joyful in all our tribulation” (2 Corinthians 7:4.)

Peter and the apostles were arrested not once but twice for preaching about Christ. Yet they continued to spread the gospel “rejoicing that they were counted worthy to suffer shame for His name” (Acts 5:41.) And Job, upon learning of the death of his children and his possessions and servants in one day, immediately fell down on the ground and worshipped God. Though Job faced the most difficult situation he had ever faced and was in deep mourning, he did not allow the circumstance to destroy His joy and hope in the Lord.

These examples and others from God’s Word teach us that true joy is not based on our physical possessions or our lot in life. We can be joyful no matter how poor or lonely or handicapped or persecuted we are. James wrote, “My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials” (James 1:2.) If we stop reading here, we may think this impossible; yet by reading further, we learn how we can be joyful: “…knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing.” Our joy does not come from the emotions we feel during our trials but from the faith that God will help us through our trials and the hope that if we bear persecution for Christ, we will grow in patience and spiritual maturity.

It is good for us to remember that if our joy is based upon God’s promises and we are obedient to His commandments, no one can take away our joy. No matter what happens to our physical body, if our soul is right with God, we will receive the blessings that He has promised for His children. We can say as the Psalmist did: “Be glad in the LORD and rejoice, you righteous; and shout for joy, all you upright in heart!” (Psalm 32:11.)

Dear sisters, if we can believe completely that God is in control of all things and that His promises are true, nothing we face can destroy our joy. We may not laugh all of the time, for there will be days in which we mourn the loss of a loved one or suffer from an illness. Yet we can still feel the joy of the Lord in our lives. Expecting to laugh all of the time is an unrealistic goal. Jesus cried when He saw the anguish of Lazarus’ sisters and friends (John 11:35) and He experienced great agony as He faced the tremendous trial of taking our sins upon Himself at Calvary (Luke 22:44.)

No, joy is not laughing and feeling giddy all of the time. If it were, we would not be encouraged to “rejoice with those who rejoice and weep with those that weep” (Romans 12:15.) As Christian women, we should care enough for others that we hurt when they are hurting. We must share not only in others’ joy but also in their heartaches.

In closing, let us consider what have we learned about the Bible’s definition of joy. Spiritual joy is the feeling of appreciation for Christ’s sacrifice and the comforting feeling that comes from God’s love for us. Spiritual joy is what keeps a Christian going when it seems that the world is crashing around him. The joy of the Lord makes us rise in the morning after a night of weeping (Psalm 30:5.) And Christian joy is what makes us shout, “This is the day the Lord has made; we will rejoice and be glad in it!” (Psalm 118:24.)

If your relationship with God is not what it should be because you have not become a Christian in the manner in which the Bible teaches, I beseech you to be saved and cast off the shackles of sin and the fear of Judgment. No matter how “good” a person is, it is not enough to be saved without obedience to God’s commandments. Jesus Christ said, “Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through Me” (John 14:6.)

Or if you are an erring Christian who has not repented of the sin in your life, please come back to the Lord and His church. The Father is waiting for you to return, just as the father awaited the return of his lost son in Luke 15 and ran to embrace him when he saw him from a distance. As the woman who found her lost coin rejoiced, so also will our Lord rejoice when you are obedient to His Word. “There is joy in the presence of the angels of God over one sinner who repents” (Luke 15:10.)

Dear sisters, may you all feel the joy that the Lord freely bestows on all His faithful children. Have a wonderful rest of the week!

Monday, February 27, 2012

LIVING BY THE SPIRIT V: LOVE IS…

Today’s Passage: “Love does no harm to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfillment of the law.” Romans 13:10

Dear sisters, it has been quite a long time since our last Priceless Pearls devotional series on Living by the Spirit. You may wish to review the previous lessons by clicking on the links below.

Living by the Spirit I – Flesh vs. Spirit
Living by the Spirit II – Lusts of the Flesh
Living by the Spirit III - Fruit of the Spirit
Living by the Spirit IV - Love Is Not

In our last lesson, we studied what love is not. Today our lesson will focus on what love is.

There are many passages in the Bible regarding love and this short lesson will not begin to touch the hem of the garment, so to speak, of this wonderful topic. In the letter to the church in Rome, Paul wrote a beautiful description of love: “Owe no one anything except to love one another, for he who loves another has fulfilled the law. For the commandments, ‘You shall not commit adultery,’ ‘You shall not murder,’ ‘You shall not steal,’ ‘You shall not bear false witness,’ ‘You shall not covet,’ and if there is any other commandment, are all summed up in this saying, namely, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ Love does no harm to a neighbor; therefore love is the fulfillment of the law” (Romans 13:8-10.)

Let us look at some of the things that love is and does according to the Scriptures:

1. Love covers sins (Proverbs 10:12.) This means that love does not hold a grudge against past wrong that has been forgiven. God forgives us when we seek forgiveness according to His Word, and we must forgive others who seek forgiveness from us as well.

2. Love keeps secrets (Proverbs 17:9.) This passage is very clear: “He who covers a transgression seeks love, but he who repeats a matter separates friends.” To love one another, we must not repeat secrets to others, for this is gossip. Instead, if we learn of something which troubles us about an individual, it is best to go to that person and ask privately. Perhaps we have misunderstood or have been told something that is untrue. Or, we may discover that the person who is the brunt of the gossip just needs some guidance and encouragement by someone more mature in the faith. We may be able to help a sister correct her sin without being subjected to public humiliation by gossip. No matter how we look at it, spreading hearsay is never the right answer.

3. Love is a debt we owe to others. We owe love as a debt to others because God has forgiven our debt through Christ. Romans 13:8 teaches us that we should owe no one anything except to love one another, for he who loves another has fulfilled the law. How does love fulfill the law? Jesus reveals that the greatest commandments are these: 1) Love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind and 2) Love your neighbor as yourself.’ He goes on to say that “on these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.” (Matthew 22:37-40.) If we truly love God and others, we will seek to please them and not seek our own selfish gain. We will not lie to, commit adultery with, steal from or otherwise hurt others because we have love in our hearts for them. We will sacrifice for God and for our spouses, children and those in need. It is by loving others that we experience the greatest joy, for we realize that God has loved us first (I John 4:19) and sacrificed His own Son, Jesus Christ, that we might be eternally blessed (John 3:16.)

4. Love rejoices in the truth and bears, believes, hopes and endures all things (I Corinthians 13:6:7.) Love leads us to forebears others’ weaknesses while recognizing our own. Love believes and hopes and endures because God has promised us eternal life if we overcome (I John 2:25.)

5. Love is the greatest thing. I Corinthians 13:13 states, “And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.” Why is love greater than faith and hope? Because faith and hope are temporary. We have faith in God’s promises and the hope of eternal life, but someday, our faith and hope will be sight! We will no longer need faith in the unseen or hope of the future because we will live in eternity with God. Faith and hope are necessary for our pilgrim journey, but in the land of endless day, we will have pure and perfect love.

6. Love serves others. Just as love is a debt to others, we are taught that because we are under the law of liberty, we are called to serve one another (Galatians 5:13-14.) Jesus demonstrated service to others through the tender act of washing His apostles’ dirty feet (John 13:13-15.) In this passage, He tells them that He has done this as an example of what they are to do to others. He did not literally mean that we must wash one another’s feet as we live in a different culture, but by performing this service to His apostles, He taught us that no matter how great our position is on earth, we as Christians are to be servants. We are to be humble and caring and tender and compassionate to others. We must not be afraid to roll up our shirtsleeves and get dirty or do something that seems “beneath us” when serving others. God values every person on the earth, and we should, also.

7. Love is imitating Christ. Ephesians 5:1-2 states that we are to be imitators of God and walk in love as Christ loved us and gave Himself for us.” Jesus came to earth as a man not only to die for our sins but also to teach us of the Father. We see God the Father through God the Son of whose example and words of ministry we read in the Word of God (John 14:8-10.)

8. Love is deep and genuine (Ephesians 3:17.) Christ is to live in our hearts through faith and we are to be “rooted and grounded in love.” If Christ’s love is our foundation, we are firmly rooted indeed.

9. Love is always growing in knowledge and understanding. Love does not reach maximum potential maturity level while we live. No matter how much Bible study we have done or how many prayers we have offered in our lives, we can still continue to grow. In the letter to the church at Philippi, Paul writes, “For God is my witness, how greatly I long for you all with the affection of Jesus Christ. And this I pray, that your love may abound still more and more in knowledge and all discernment” (Philippians 1:8-11.) The Christians were told to continue growing their love in knowledge and discernment. We do this by meditating on God’s Word and continuing to pray for discernment and wisdom to understand and apply what we read in the Bible. We also grow in love by exercising it in works of service.

10. Love is being united. In Philippians 2:2, the church is urged to fulfill Paul’s joy “by being like-minded, having the same love, being of one accord, of one mind.” Christ wants us to be united in love. We can only do this if our love is genuine and based on God’s Word. Our love cannot be based on how we feel but how God feels about the matter. United love does not mean that we overlook sin and accept everyone as they are in order to keep a sense of peace. This is not true peace, but is instead tolerance of sin. The church can only be united in love if we speak where the Bible speaks and remain silent where the Bible is silent. In other words, we must not add to God’s blessings and likewise, we must not take away from God’s warnings. We must be united in our desire to save the lost, “hating even the garment defiled by the flesh” (Jude 1:23.) We must encourage people to repent and be obedient to God’s Word as many in Corinth did (I Corinthians 6:9-11.)

11. Love is humble, compassionate and recognizes needs. One of my favorite passages is Philippians 2:3-4: “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.” We are to be aware of others’ needs and act quickly to assist. Sometimes we can get so caught up in our own lives that we fail to speak to those outside of our usual group. No one should ever feel isolated or alone in the Lord’s church! It is the duty of every Christian to seek out visitors, those who are sick or lonely. We might invite those who are not often invited out to eat instead of eating with our same favorite friends every week. Certainly, friends are wonderful and we should spend quality time with them, but how wonderful those who have few friends might feel if they were invited to eat out on occasion. Getting to know one another outside of worship services is very important to learn about each other on a personal level and to discover one another’s needs.

12. Love is perfect. “But above all these things put on love, which is the bond of perfection” (Colossians 3:14.) Perfection means completeness. We are not complete in our Christian walk without true, godly love. Love is that which should cover us like a garment wherever we go. We are to be filled with love so that it overflows in our hearts and is shared with everyone we meet. Love is not something we do occasionally; love must be who we are.

There are so many more qualities of love in the Scriptures but these are wonderful passages with which to begin. I pray that this study encourages each of us to research more of the love passages and meditate on them. I Thessalonians 5:8, II Timothy 1:7, Hebrews 10:24-25, II Peter 1:7, 1 John 2:10 and I John 3:16-18 are but a few more passages regarding love.

Having read all of these wonderful passages on love, it would be unjust not to mention a warning on love:

We cannot love God unless we obey Him. John 14:15, I John 5:2-3, II John 1:6 are three passages that clearly teach us this fact. We may be “good people” who care about others and do many good works, but if we have not obeyed God’s Word regarding how to be saved and how to live faithfully, then we do not love God. This is what His Word says. We cannot expect to love God on our own terms, but we must love Him by obeying His commandments. He is the great Creator, Sustainer and Savior and He does not accept it when we try to circumvent His laws by thinking that we can worship Him in our own way and contrary to His Word. Let us always read the Word and strive to ensure that our worship is acceptable to Him by the commandments and examples in the New Testament (the law of Christ.)

May each of us glean new treasures from God’s precious Word by daily study and meditation.

Above all, “let all that you do be done with love.” I Corinthians 16:14.